Now that practically everyone is on Facebook, the question of friending your boss on the social networking site will eventually come up. According to this article I read, 56 percent of Americans say it’s not right to Facebook friend their boss, while 62 percent think it’s wrong to friend an employee. Interesting numbers. I interpret the numbers to mean that people don’t mind friending their boss if it’s their move, but wouldn’t want to be put on the spot by having their boss try to friend them.
I’m kinda torn on this question because I’m the boss where I work. Because of the nature of the job, I usually become pretty good friends with some employees, and naturally want to Facebook friend them. But at the same time, I feel weird about doing it because of the work relationship. That, and the fact that I’m usually 10+ years older than my employees and am posting status updates asking for a good treatment for wrinkles while they’re posting pics from all night drinking binges still!
Anyway, I haven’t been friending any employees recently and will probably stop the practice altogether. It does make things kind of uncomfortable when I have to take disciplinary measures at work…
Have you looked at Google Buzz yet? This is Google’s Facebook-like attempt to make social networking easier via Gmail. You can post status updates and share things like pictures, videos, and web links. Oh, and BTW, if you have Gmail the DEFAULT setting is for Buzz to be on, which means it automatically combs through your contacts list for people to add — and makes those contacts visible to each other like a Facebook friends list would be.
There used to be a time when being a high school graduate was enough to secure good employment for your entire working life, but those days are long gone. There’s just too much instability in today’s world to allow for lifetime employment, and when the economy takes a downturn, absolutely no one is safe from cutbacks and outsourcing. Still, you can significantly improve your chances of finding and keeping a high-paying job by getting a college degree.
I just read a news blurb about a Rhode Island man named Alan MacQuattie who was recently charged with animal cruelty and unauthorized practice of veterinary medicine for operating on his own dog. Apparently the dog, a 14-year-old Lab mix, had a cyst on its leg, and MacQuattie couldn’t afford to have a vet remove the thing because MacQuattie is on a fixed income. So the 63-year-old gave the dog a local anesthetic and did the surgery himself.